Let’s just get this out of the way – I’m a lazy, entitled #millennial, and I’m everything wrong with this generation. Here’s why that’s not so bad. For this story, we’re going back a month to when I stumbled across this article on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. I hadn’t thought about Maslow since Psychology 11, but remembering what I learned had me thinking for weeks: What do we millennials value, and why do we seem so entitled? WHY DO PEOPLE HATE US?!?
Well, I figured it out. Hold on to your butts.
We, as millennials, need to work either smarter or harder than the previous generation, and the reason why comes from how we look at Maslow’s hierarchy. In his iconic pyramid, he illustrates five basic categories of human needs – physiological needs, like food and rest; safety, as in security of employment or property; love, as in human relationships; esteem, like feeling respected; and finally, self-actualization, like doing whatever the fuck you feel like because it makes you happy. It’s important to understand the visual because each category supports the next one. You can’t get self-actualization if you don’t have security, for instance. Actually, you know what? That last sentence was just plain fucking wrong, and it hurt me to type that. Millennials HACKED Maslow, and here’s how.
If you’re in your 20s, when was the actual last time you felt “secure”? You’ve known for years that everything teetered on the brink of disaster, ready to all crash down the moment your workplace decides to restructure or your landlord decides to renovict. Security is a thing of the past, and we all know it. What once were basic securities, like owning a house, is literally impossible now for most of us. We do not have Security.
You know what we DO have though? Adaptability. Our parents were mostly content to dedicate their entire lives to a steady paycheck and pension, but we know WE CAN DO ANYTHING. It’s not like Burger King is paying us a living wage anyway, so we go out there and do what makes us happy for peanuts. WE’RE ACHIEVING SELF-ACTUALIZATION TO EARN THE SAME AMOUNT OF MONEY. That’s what most people don’t get! AND we’re increasing our potential to earn instead of locking ourselves down as a wage slave! This is literally the smartest thing we can do!
Look at the pyramid again. Under Love, we have things like family and relationships. Most of us are delaying starting a family for a variety of reasons. Pessimists say it’s because we have no money, but I, as an optimist, would like to point out most of us just have different goals. I don’t want kids because my life is awesome already! Right at this moment, it’s within my means to just fly to Mexico for a week and not hurt my employment or relationships! Why would I change that AND THROW ANOTHER HUMAN BEING INTO THE MIX so I can feel fulfilled?
Our parents started building the pyramid the way it was supposed to be built in 1943: security first, happiness later. At the time, Maslow’s hierarchy resonated with millions. I’m here to tell you it’s fucking 2016 and Maslow is out of date. Pursue self-actualization now, and figure out a way to make it pay. C’mon, you’re resourceful and have Internet access! You can do it! Just start with a 10-to-2, work your fucking ass off, and you’ll experience something previous generations couldn’t: Creating Your Own Security with Something You Built On Your Own. It’s the best feeling ever.
My first job was as a video store clerk. I think it was less than $10/hour. My mom makes $15/hour, and she figures she’s doing okay. You know what the most I’ve ever made in one day was? $4,484.03, and it was doing something I loved. If $15/hour is okay, I’m banging angels. And what about Ben? I can’t release official numbers, but he learned programming on his own and will see FI by 33. Ben and I saw Maslow’s pyramid, catapulted ourselves to the peak with middle fingers in the air, and we’re building from the top down for a complete pyramid we can be proud of. I encourage you to do the same.
You WILL have to work smarter or harder though. It’s not easy to make a living as an artist, writer, craftsman, or entrepreneur. I’m hoping you’ll pick a job for yourself you’re so passionate about, you’ll ALWAYS itch to be working on it. You’ll probably also need a Day Job. Pretend the hours you grind out in the office are part of your Real Job, giving you enough money to get by until you can get back to your Passion. Ignore the naysayers. They don’t believe in what you’re doing BECAUSE THEY COULDN’T DO IT. Why would you listen to someone who ignored their potential? They’re still at the bottom of the pyramid wondering where the fuck we got our catapult.
As long as you have a roof over your head: self-actualization first, everything else later. The more you know who you are and what you want, the more you’ll come to define yourself instead of letting your job do it for you. Remember to work from the top down. See you in Mexico.